No Deep Dives by FlexMami

Babes, welcome to No Deep Dives, where we journey through life’s biggest (and smallest) questions with just enough depth to inspire—without the analysis paralysis. I’m Flex, best-selling author and decade-long internet thinker, here to unpack the things we all wonder about but don’t always have answers for. This is where intuition meets intention, blending philosophy, psychology, astrology, self-discovery, and those cosmic nudges that help you decode the art of living mindfully. For ruminators, seekers, and anyone ready to embrace life’s synchronicities, this podcast won’t solve everything—but it’ll help you see the magic in each moment. Think of it as your personal GPS for navigating life’s twists with purpose.

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Episodes

gen z (question mark)

Thursday Mar 21, 2024

Thursday Mar 21, 2024

The implication of being the generation set to shake things up, is that you stay shook up. When (as of 2024) Gen Z spans from 12-27, what is there to learn about them that doesn't feel like wild assumptions? Also who is going to keep us in the loop of the Chronically Offline Zoomers? Read the report here.
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Welcome to No Deep Dives: Acknowledging the Land 
00:10 The Fascination with Online Surveys and Gen Z Trends
00:26 Diving Deep into the Live Nation Report on Gen Z
01:56 What's In and What's Out According to Gen Z
02:27 The Skepticism Around Data Collection and Its Implications
03:51 Exploring the Complexities of Gen Z's Identity and Consumption
11:01 The Influence of Millennials on Gen Z and the Future of Cool
16:35 Concluding Thoughts and How to Connect with the Podcast Community
 
In this episode of No Deep Dives, FlexMami discusses the results of a recent report released by Live Nation exploring Gen Z trends and culture in 2024. The episode critiques the methodology of such reports, questioning their accuracy and the potential biases in their data collection processes. Flex raises concerns about oversimplification and generalising Gen Z's characteristics and highlights how advertisers and brands may miss the mark in understanding this demographic through superficial surveys. The discussion also touches on Gen Z's diverse interests, from dopamine dressing to antinatalism, and critiques the notion of generational identity being largely shaped by online consumption patterns. Furthermore, Flex reflects on the role of older generations in shaping Gen Z's culture and the importance of authentic representation in media. The podcast concludes with a call for more nuanced and responsible approaches to understanding and engaging with Gen Z.

Sunday Mar 17, 2024

Can a titanium piece of smart jewellery really help you meet your wellness goals? Or is the Oura Ring the latest micro-trend gadget nobody needs?
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Welcome to No Deep Dives: Acknowledging the Land00:10 Flexmami's Oura Ring Journey Begins00:52 The Oura Ring Experience: Expectations vs. Reality02:03 Diving Deeper into the Oura Ring's Features and Claims02:46 The Oura Ring Review: A Personal Experiment04:29 Pros, Cons, and the Verdict on the Oura Ring07:40 Reflecting on the Oura Ring and Broader Wellness Tech10:51 Closing Thoughts and Community Engagement
 
In this episode of No Deep Dives, Flex provides a semi-comprehensive review of her two-month experience with the Oura Ring. Despite initial excitement about the gadget's promise to track sleep and overall wellness through various metrics, she ultimately does not recommend it. Flex discusses the Oura Ring's features, including its ability to monitor heart rate, blood oxygen level, and provide 20 different biometrics. However, she critiques the usefulness and accuracy of the data provided, expressing confusion and disappointment over the lack of actionable insights derived from the statistics. She also mentions the need for a subscription to access full app functionalities. Flex expresses concern over the potential for developing a dependency on the device for health and wellness insights. Overall, Flexmami's review is mixed, highlighting the novelty of the Oura Ring but questioning its practicality and effectiveness in contributing to a better understanding of one's health.

Thursday Mar 14, 2024

Who knew the answer to all my problems was talking to myself first thing in the morning? I took a month-long social media hiatus, then returned as a JOURNALING MONSTER. Now, according to you, I'm glowing differently, my attitude has improved, and I have a way better understanding of who I am, what I want and what I need.The book I reference is The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron. Here's my Instagram 🧿
TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Welcome to No Deep Dives: The Flexmami Podcast
00:10 The Unexpected Journey into Journaling
00:48 The Morning Pages: A Deep Dive
02:22 The Transformative Power of Morning Pages
04:07 Navigating the Morning Pages: Tips and Insights
06:25 The Personal Impact of Morning Pages
07:31 Morning Pages: Beyond the Basics
07:57 The Discipline and Discovery of Morning Pages
25:20 Reflections and Future Directions
27:54 Signing Off: The Cult of Morning Pages
In this episode of 'No Deep Dives,' Flex discusses her transformative experience with writing morning pages, attributed to Julia Cameron’s book 'The Artist's Way.' Starting from the point of scepticism towards routine and disciplined practices, Flex recounts how a month-long social media hiatus led her to adopt and rigorously maintain a routine of writing three pages of stream-of-consciousness journaling first thing every morning. She shares how this practice impacted her mental clarity, creativity, self-discovery, and discipline, even amidst challenges like illness and lack of motivation. Through this journey, she uncovers the essence of morning pages as a form of meditation and mental purging to facilitate a deeper connection with oneself. Flex illuminates the importance of engaging with this practice without dilution or shortcuts, advocating for its raw, therapeutic potential to emerge only when done as intended. She wraps up the episode by addressing frequently asked questions about the practice, emphasizing the unique personal insights and 'epiphanies' one discovers through consistent engagement with morning pages.

Thursday Mar 14, 2024

Do you live in the UK, the US or Australia? Has your emotional, mental and social well-being been on a steady decline for ages? I KNOW WHY!!!! This episode might validate you.Sapien Labs released its 4th Annual Mental State Of The World Report, and the stats are troubling. We have been told that Australia is the lucky country, the land of plenty. Shouldn't this mean that we're happy too? People are suffering!! 
You can read the report here.
 
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Acknowledging the Land and Introducing the Podcast00:10 The Global Mental Health Crisis: Insights and Surprising Findings01:04 Diving Deep into the Mental State of the World Report06:12 Australia's Mental Health Issue08:23 The Three Culprits Behind the Mental Wellbeing Decline13:39 Cultural Reflections and the Quest for Better Mental Health22:08 Taking the Mental Wellbeing Quiz: A Personal Journey24:17 Wrapping Up and How to Stay Connected
In this episode of No Deep Dives, Flex discusses the findings of a recent mental health report, mainly focusing on Australians' mental well-being compared to other countries. Flex explores various factors affecting mental health, including smartphone use, consumption of ultra-processed food, and diminished family bonds.The report indicates a significant decline in mental well-being, especially among younger generations, and challenges narratives about the quality of life in different countries. Flex reflects on the cultural perceptions of mental health and societal expectations, urging listeners to reconsider their understanding of mental well-being and the factors contributing to it.The episode concludes with Flex sharing her own mental health quiz results and inviting listeners to join a discussion about the topic.
 

point me to the feminist utopia

Thursday Mar 07, 2024

Thursday Mar 07, 2024

Is a feminist utopia the fairytale we've all been dreaming of? Though not all unicorns and fairy dust, Tineke Willemsen says it's "a place where at least women would like to live".
DOES THAT SOUND LIKE SOMETHING THAT INTERESTS YOU? Send this to your best friend, family group chat and your situationship. 2024 and beyond is the year of Matriarchy propaganda, hehe.
 
 
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Acknowledgement00:17 Understanding Matriarchy and Patriarchy00:55 The State of the World and the Need for Change02:00 The Concept of a Feminist Utopia02:18 Understanding the Difference between Matriarchal and Matrilineal Societies02:36 The Journey Towards a Matriarchy03:17 Understanding Patriarchy and its Impacts04:24 The Struggle with Patriarchy05:07 The Definition and Implications of Patriarchy06:07 The Reality of Patriarchy and its Effects09:07 The Vision of a Matriarchy09:32 The Resistance to Matriarchy10:14 The Potential of a Matriarchy10:42 The Power Dynamics in a Matriarchy14:48 The Concept of Privilege in Patriarchy15:54 The Fear of Losing Power16:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Thursday Mar 07, 2024

Why is every hot, sexy and cerebral person drawn to spirituality? Is it leading us to eventual enlightenment? Or just a creative coping mechanism for the symptoms of being a human?
In this episode Flex discusses why she's so drawn to spirituality, that time she met a witchdoctor's hawks (read that twice) and how spirituality fills in the gaps of what our physical experience can't.
Then dives deep into the nature of truth versus facts, the role of personal experiences in shaping our reality, and the potential limitations imposed by societal norms and personal biases.
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Acknowledgement
00:16 Exploring Spirituality and the Unseen
01:55 The Mystery of Trees and the Unseen
02:59 Physicality vs Spirituality
04:25 The Depth of Perception
06:11 The Adventure of Self-Exploration
08:30 The Limitations of Our Understanding
09:06 The Power of Individual Spirituality
09:48 The Witch Doctor's Hawks: A Ghanaian Experience
11:22 The Freedom of the Spiritual Realm
15:47 The Complexity of Truth and Fact
17:02 The Intersection of Societal Norms and Personal Truth
17:46 Conclusion: The Invitation to Open Dialogue
18:28 Outro: Podcast Wrap-up

mormon influencer pipeline

Friday Mar 01, 2024

Friday Mar 01, 2024

Is there even a difference these days? What is it about our compulsion to slap inflammatory labels on things? Is it an accurate summation, misogyny or a secret third thing?
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Acknowledgement
00:38 The Controversy Around Nara Smith's Content
01:44 Exploring the Mormon Connection
02:37 The Shift in Audience Perception
04:41 The Trad Wife Debate
06:43 The Role of Appearance in Content Perception
07:17 The Misogynoir in Content Critique
08:36 Comparing Nara Smith and Ballerina Farm
09:23 The Propaganda Argument
10:34 The Impact of Appearance on Perception
11:11 The Bigger Picture: Patriarchy and Misogyny
11:37 The Role of Religion in Content Creation
12:28 The Danger of Borrowed Takes
17:50 The Intersection of Media Consumption
18:02 Conclusion and Call to Action

who's on the door in heaven?

Friday Mar 01, 2024

Friday Mar 01, 2024

What if you were the gatekeeper of a divine realm? Would you turn into a power-hungry egomaniac or an empathetic assistant?
 
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction: Thoughts on God and Morality
00:40 The Concept of Life's Circle and Spirals
01:31 Imagining Heaven's Entry Criteria
02:23 The Dilemma of Judging Good and Bad
05:03 The Trickster's Approach to Heaven's Entry
06:03 Exploring Dante's Inferno: The Nine Levels of Hell
08:42 The Confusion of Earth as a Hellish Place
09:40 Choosing Your Own Hell: A Personal Perspective
 

gateways to arranged marriages

Thursday Feb 29, 2024

Thursday Feb 29, 2024

Flex chats about MAFS and how it might be the gateway drug for arranged marriages in Australia.
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction to the Podcast
00:10 Exploring the Concept of Arranged Marriages
00:23 Reality TV and Modern Dating Dynamics
00:57 Personal Experiences and Cultural Insights
02:04 Understanding the Purpose of Arranged Marriages
02:46 Economic Prosperity vs Love in Marriages
03:18 The Logic Behind Arranged Marriages
03:46 The Challenges of Modern Dating
03:51 Questioning the Morality of Common Practices
04:15 The Pros and Cons of Arranged Marriages
04:40 Divorce in the Context of Arranged Marriages
05:57 The Economics of Marriage and Divorce
06:21 The Influence of Perception and Culture
09:57 The Flaws in Modern Traditions
11:38 The Paradox of Agency and Suppression
11:56 The Stigma of Divorce
12:45 Conclusion and Podcast Sign-off
CONTACT
nodeepdives@flexmami.com

Thursday Feb 29, 2024

Logie-Nominee, best-selling author, and award-winning podcaster FlexMami decodes the riddle of life. Each episode is earnest, optimistic, opinionated, sometimes superficial and never judgmental. Perfect for ruminators, over-thinkers and serial generalists searching for meaning (never resolution!).
 
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction and Acknowledgement
00:06 The Birth of 'No Deep Dives'
00:18 The Intersection of Chaos and Conventional
00:32 The Purpose of 'No Deep Dives'
00:39 The Tone of the Podcast
CONTACT
nodeepdives@flexmami.com
 

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